My name is Tobias and I am a trans man.

I am seeking a life long relationship with a  man who is older then me who understands that I will be getting all surgeries top and bottom. I am on the wait list for top surgery at the moment.

I am old school kind of person where I need to get to know you before any sex can happen. At first we will meet at a public place a few times so I can gain your trust and then we can meet at my place. Later down the road sex can happen. I need you to show me that you are intrested in maybe wanting a relationship with me and also I need to be able to trust you and it takes time to gain trust. I have been in situations in the past due to online dating which is why I am now doing things the old school way due to anyone can be anyone and say anything online. I have noticed people are too trusting these days.

I will not relocate and I do not do long distance relationships.

I only talk on here and no where else on other websites or apps. I will not do video chat due to it triggers my PTSD.

In order to me I need to see a photo of your face if you do not have a photo on here.