I hope to find a LIFE mate who enjoys private times and vanilla times such as dining out, movies, dancing, day trips, even kayaking, sailing, cross country skiing

 Dance partner is hard for me to find and very important for me.  I will take lessons with you if need be.  Some types of Ballroom are appealing. 

I will not want a cig smoker, heavy drinker, Trumper, macho, demanding, moocher, selfish, lazy, dishonest or manipulative. 

I deserve a good man and a good life...and hopefully an easier and better life.

I am not religious, but tolerate if you are.

I hope you like pets.  I hope you can help out significantly around the house, such as cooking, yard work and other chores.  IF you are good at massage, all the better.  Dont come to me hoping I will be a 50s wife or your mother.

I am retired, with bachelors degree, two children, out of state.