As with many people here, I am at a loss to know exactly what I ought to write. I'm mtf, feminine gender (you'll see..;-). It is hard for gurls me to make any kind of genuine connection (especially with girls) due to sexual objectification, which is nearly universal. Sex is not all that hard for me find, but I am missing is the scent of a woman, cuddling, pillow-talk, having a confidant, meaningful girl convewrsation (we like talk about our feelings, something that frightens men...;-), having someone who genuiniely cares about how my day went, someone who loves me as I am, not as they would like me to be to fit inrto their fanstasy. Believe me, I am far far morew titilating thanb any fantasy could ever be....