Update:

I may've found my person, so I'm not actively looking anymore. I wish you good luck in your search. ~ March 29, 2024


Short version:

I'm looking for mild-tempered men within 7 years of my own age (47 - 62, as of this writing) who are Greater Seattle / Puget Sound residents, and are available for a publicly recognized relationship. 

I’m fully vaccinated, complete with two boosters.

Long version:

I'm a supposedly mature, Black SBBW. I'm sort of a geek (or is it nerd?) light, enjoy genre media, am allergic to most dander bearing animals (if you have cats, kindly don't contact me; dogs ... eh, maybe), and am one of the city's car-free wonders. I look like a cross between Whoopi Goldberg and Sidibe Gabourey.

I was raised in the wild by Beanie Babies.

Before I even meet someone who is local to Seattle, I get asked what I will do with them. I am a literal-minded person and I honestly don't know: each person, and each dynamic is different. How do you feel about being touched on the first meeting, in public? Do you mind being called 'cute'? Most importantly, what if I do it anyway?

Ultimately I would like a relationship with particularly compatible candidates. Race, height, and weight are not an issue: respect and attitude is.

If you'd like to meet to chat, I'm up for a G-PG rated beverage and a walk while playing Pokémon Go. Don’t play? If you want to please me you’ll get the app and choose Team Instinct before we meet.

(If another COVID variant arrives, I'm up for email here and eventually a G-PG rated Zoom during the pandemic.)

LIMITS:

(Limits = no thank you.) Online relationships, long-distance relationships, phone relationship, guaranteed immediate live-in, more than 7 years over or under my age, convicted of a felony within the last decade, released from jail or prison within the last decade, KiK, Snapchat, Hangouts (Limits = no thank you.)